AUDREY BETH STEIN
DRAFTS :: Here is an evolving collection of teachings and preachings. Each piece is a draft—solid enough for me to put out there, but marking a point in time, not necessarily a finality of thought or expression. I may change my mind, or clarify further. I'm a work in progress, as we all are.

On Criticism, Career, and Survival

Can you survive by doing that?

A parent's worry, especially if their kid is trying to pursue a career in the arts or anything else the parent doesn't personally know to be a viable option.

Really, the answer for ALL of us, no matter what our career path, is "Don't know." "Doing my best." "Making the best choices I can right now."

(And sometimes in the back of our minds, Can I survive if I DON'T do that? Our soul keeps us alive as much as our wallet does.)

Criticism doesn't help someone make better choices. It just cuts them off from their ability to make the choices that are right for them, and stay connected to you. And often, it makes it harder for them to access their right choices, period.

Judgment and anxiety do the same.

So lay off the criticism and let go of the judgment.

Trust your kid.

Show up with curiosity and faith. Tend to your own fears. Offer a safe landing pad of love, caring, and gentleness for the stumbles. Remember that it's a process and we're all allowed to be imperfect and ask for help once in a while.

ABS :: draft date 10/4/16

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If you're looking for resources for navigating your own career and life purpose or for passing along to someone else, here are the four most valuable books I've encountered:

And perhaps my Core Action Circles or One-on-one Intuitive Facilitation or Essay Magic or Writing and Publishing Support may be of use at some point.

If this piece moved you or sparked thought, I'd love to hear it... by mail. Send me a postcard or a letter. I'll read it. (Though I may not respond promptly.) You can write me at Audrey Beth Stein P.O. Box 380426 Cambridge MA 02238.

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